Understanding the Weight of Choice: Dreams of Equal Fears
Dreaming of having to choose between equal fears can be a perplexing yet revealing experience. Such dreams often emerge during times of indecision and anxiety in our waking lives. They may vividly portray our subconscious grappling with choices that seem equally daunting, each path resonating with our deepest fears and uncertainties.
Ibni Sirin, the great scholar of dream interpretation, would suggest that these dreams reflect our internal conflicts, revealing our need for clarity and courage. As we approach these dreams with intention, we may find profound insights about ourselves—our desires, our anxieties, and the choices that we must confront in our lives. Understanding the symbols at play can help us navigate these fears and inspire us to seek the strength we may not realize we possess.
Therefore, let us explore the meanings behind these dreams and consider how they guide us toward a more fulfilled and fearless existence.
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- Choosing between equal fears in dreams indicates a struggle with decision-making in waking life.
- Such dreams may reflect inner conflicts and a call for self-reflection.
- Addressing fears directly in waking life can aid in reducing dream-related anxiety.
Symbols
- select
- Post:
(Pillar; Post) In a dream, a column represents one’s religion. If one sees a column descending from the firmament in a dream, it means a divine favor and a blessing to have a just, compassionate and a forbearing ruler in that land. If one is hit with a post, or if he uses it to beat someone in a dream, it means hearing or exchanging harsh words that describe the quality of the one who is struck.
If one sees himself leaning against a pillar that he bought or which is given to him in his dream, it means that he will rely upon an old woman for his livelihood, or that he will marry an old woman. A column in a dream also represents a friend one can depend on. A leaning column in a dream represents a worker who cheats his employer, disobeys him and who is a hypocrite.
If a worker sees a leaning post in his dream, it means that his employer will lean toward kindness and appreciation of his workers. Columns in a dream also represent important and strong men who are capable of managing their responsibilities. Owning a column or becoming a column in a dream, and if one qualifies, it means that he will become a leader of his community, a pillar in his own field, or a beacon of knowledge and a pillar of wisdom who is sought by knowledge seeking people.
If one becomes a pillar in a dream, it also could mean his death, or it could mean crying. A pillar in a dream also represents a father, a son, money, capital, a partner, a vehicle, one’s wife or a leader. A marble column in a dream represents a great wealth, a great man, or a great woman.
A column made from granite in a dream represents someone who despises himself. If it is from stone, it means fast changing conditions. If it is a wooden column in the dream, then it represents a hypocrite.
The pillars of a mosque represent the Imam, the DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 93 muezzin, the servants and the people who pray in it.
- Granite:
(Pillar; Post) In a dream, a column represents one’s religion. If one sees a column descending from the firmament in a dream, it means a divine favor and a blessing to have a just, compassionate and a forbearing ruler in that land. If one is hit with a post, or if he uses it to beat someone in a dream, it means hearing or exchanging harsh words that describe the quality of the one who is struck.
If one sees himself leaning against a pillar that he bought or which is given to him in his dream, it means that he will rely upon an old woman for his livelihood, or that he will marry an old woman. A column in a dream also represents a friend one can depend on. A leaning column in a dream represents a worker who cheats his employer, disobeys him and who is a hypocrite.
If a worker sees a leaning post in his dream, it means that his employer will lean toward kindness and appreciation of his workers. Columns in a dream also represent important and strong men who are capable of managing their responsibilities. Owning a column or becoming a column in a dream, and if one qualifies, it means that he will become a leader of his community, a pillar in his own field, or a beacon of knowledge and a pillar of wisdom who is sought by knowledge seeking people.
If one becomes a pillar in a dream, it also could mean his death, or it could mean crying. A pillar in a dream also represents a father, a son, money, capital, a partner, a vehicle, one’s wife or a leader. A marble column in a dream represents a great wealth, a great man, or a great woman.
A column made from granite in a dream represents someone who despises himself. If it is from stone, it means fast changing conditions. If it is a wooden column in the dream, then it represents a hypocrite.
The pillars of a mosque represent the Imam, the DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 93 muezzin, the servants and the people who pray in it.
- Inspector:
(Touch) In a dream, examining means spying, eavesdropping or paying attention to a conversation one should not listen to.
- Post:
- worries
- Attrition:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Remorse:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Uneasiness:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Attrition:
- pick
- Bite off:
(Bite off; Nip; Tweak) Pinching someone in a dream means envying him, or plotting to get some of his money which he will eventually get. Pinching someone in the butts in a dream means betraying him with his wife. Pinching someone in the belly in a dream means wishing to get some of his savings.
Pinching someone in a dream means hurting him with words. Pinching or biting DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 331 someone’s hand in a dream may represent a snake bite, or a bite of a scorpion. Pinching someone’s hand in a dream also means receiving unlawful money then incurring heavy losses, or it could mean paying a hefty fine.
- Tweak:
(Bite off; Nip; Tweak) Pinching someone in a dream means envying him, or plotting to get some of his money which he will eventually get. Pinching someone in the butts in a dream means betraying him with his wife. Pinching someone in the belly in a dream means wishing to get some of his savings.
Pinching someone in a dream means hurting him with words. Pinching or biting DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 331 someone’s hand in a dream may represent a snake bite, or a bite of a scorpion. Pinching someone’s hand in a dream also means receiving unlawful money then incurring heavy losses, or it could mean paying a hefty fine.
- Nip:
(Bite off; Nip; Tweak) Pinching someone in a dream means envying him, or plotting to get some of his money which he will eventually get. Pinching someone in the butts in a dream means betraying him with his wife. Pinching someone in the belly in a dream means wishing to get some of his savings.
Pinching someone in a dream means hurting him with words. Pinching or biting DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 331 someone’s hand in a dream may represent a snake bite, or a bite of a scorpion. Pinching someone’s hand in a dream also means receiving unlawful money then incurring heavy losses, or it could mean paying a hefty fine.
- Bite off:
- anxieties
- Attrition:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Remorse:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Uneasiness:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Attrition:
- choose
- Selling:
If one sees himself as a prisoner being sold in a slave market in a dream, it means honor if the buyer is a woman, and difficulties if the buyer is a man. The higher the price he is auctioned for, the better or worse is his luck. In a dream, the more loss the buyer incurs, the better it is for the traded subject and vice- versa.
There is also a difference between seeing oneself being auctioned and being sold. Being auctioned in a dream means evil. To sell means to part with.
In a dream, the buyer is the seller and the seller is a buyer. Selling means giving preference and value to the merchandise. If what is being sold is worldly, the preference is then given to one’s benefits in the hereafter.
Selling in a dream also means exchanging one condition with another. However, bartering in a dream means to exchange the benefit of things, or to share them. If for example one sees himself in a dream trading something of no value for something precious, and if he is a warrior, it means that he will die as a martyr.
Selling a free man in a dream means rotation of power and reaching a praiseworthy end. As it happened in the story of Joseph son of Jacob, upon both of them be peace.
- Yelling:
- Banal:
A cat in a dream represents a book of records, one’s share from a business, an inheritance, or his work. A cat in a dream also means shunning off one’s husband, wife or children, or it could mean a fight, theft, adultery, disloyalty, eavesdropping, backbiting or bearing a child from adultery, a bastard child, or it could represent a gentle speaking person, a toadying person or someone who desires to be accepted by others, and should he find an opportune moment, he will spoil everyone’s peace. A cat in a dream also represents a banal woman who likes herself.
If a cat steels something from her master, it means that he may pay a fine, have a fight with his relatives or children, and it could mean a robbery. A wildcat in a dream means adversities, toiling and a wretched life. Selling a cat in a dream means spending one’s money.
The scratch of a cat in a dream means that one will be betrayed by his servant. The bite of a cat in a dream represents a hoaxer or a crooked woman. It is also said that a cat’s bite in a dream means an illness that will last one full year.
- Selling:
- fears
- Terror:
- Attrition:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
- Remorse:
(Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.
Practical Insights for Facing Your Fears
- Reflect on Your Fears
Take a moment to journal or meditate on the fears presented in your dream. Reflecting on them will help you identify their roots in your waking life. Are these fears based on real-life decisions, relationships, or societal pressures?
Understanding their origins can provide clarity, allowing you to approach these issues constructively. Consider discussing your fears with a trusted friend or family member, as sharing such thoughts can lighten their burden and provide new perspectives. Remember, by acknowledging your fears, you can take the first steps toward overcoming them.
- Evaluate Your Choices
If your dream presents you with two equal but opposing fears, it may mirror a situation in your life where you feel stuck. Make a list of the pros and cons for each choice you are facing. This tangible evaluation can simplify a daunting decision, providing you with clarity.
Seek advice from those who have faced similar dilemmas or consult with experts in the field at hand. By weighing your options and gathering insights, you empower yourself to make informed decisions, calming the turmoil within your spirit.
- Practice Self-Compassion
It’s crucial, during times of fear and confusion, to practice kindness towards yourself. Life can present us with challenging choices, and it is natural to feel overwhelmed. Engage in activities that soothe your spirit, such as yoga, mindfulness, or gentle walks in nature.
These practices will help ground you and reduce the anxiety tied to your dreams. Additionally, remind yourself that it’s okay to seek help when needed; professional advice through therapy can also provide a safe space to explore these feelings further.
FAQs
- What does it mean to dream about choosing between two fears?
Dreaming about choosing between two fears typically symbolizes an inner conflict reflecting uncertainty in your waking life. It suggests that you may be facing a significant decision where both outcomes evoke anxiety. This dream encourages self-reflection on what is causing such fears and the need for clarity in your choices.
- How can I interpret my dreams more effectively?
To interpret your dreams effectively, begin by keeping a dream journal. Write down your dreams immediately upon waking, paying attention to the symbols and feelings associated with each dream. Look for recurring themes and reflect on how they relate to your waking life. Consulting established dream interpretation resources like Ibni Sirin's guide will also provide deeper insights into the meanings of specific symbols.
- Can dreams about fear indicate something psychological?
Yes, dreams about fear can often reflect unresolved emotions or psychological stressors in waking life. They serve as a mirror, highlighting anxieties that we may not fully confront. Such dreams can be beneficial as they prompt us to examine these feelings, encouraging personal growth and healing.
- Should I be worried if I frequently dream of my fears?
While frequent dreams about fears can be distressing, they are not uncommon. Such dreams invite you to explore underlying issues. Instead of worrying, consider viewing them as an opportunity for awareness and growth. Reflecting on what these fears symbolize can guide you toward greater self-acceptance and emotional resilience.
- How can I reduce fear-related dreams?
To reduce fear-related dreams, focus on stress reduction techniques in your waking life. Engage in regular relaxation practices such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga. A balanced lifestyle, including adequate sleep and healthy eating, can also improve your emotional well-being, leading to calmer dreams. If fear persists, speaking with a counselor or therapist could also provide support and strategies for managing these feelings.
References
- Ibni Sirin, 'Interpretation of Dreams', various translations and interpretations.
- Mevlana Rumi, 'The Essential Rumi', translations by Coleman Barks.
