The Hidden Depths of Parenting Dreams

Dreams of sharing the challenges of parenthood can stir complex feelings within us. They might highlight the struggles, joys, and communal aspects of raising children. Much like the stories woven into our nightly reveries, these dreams often reflect our desires to connect with others about our parenting experiences.

In contemporary society, where many feel isolated in their parenting journey, these dreams serve as a gentle reminder that sharing burdens can provide relief and communal support. Exploring this theme through the lens of Ibni Sirin's interpretations reveals significant meanings tied to our unwritten hopes and unspoken worries. Such dreams encourage introspection about our connections with other parents and emphasize the importance of community in facing life's challenges.

They also signal a need for guidance and unity in navigating the often overwhelming seas of parenting.

• Dreams of sharing parenting challenges often reflect your internal struggles with your role as a parent.
• These dreams can symbolize a longing for support and community in your parenting journey.
• They serve as reminders to seek help and share your experiences with others.

Symbols

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  • Contribution:

    (Alms; Charity; Contribution; Donation; Fulfilling needs; Gift; Offering; Profits; Religious endowment) Making a religious endowment in a dream represents good deeds that are done for God’s pleasure, seeking to be in 142 IBN SEERIN’S Hi3 nearness and asking for His blessings. Making a religious endowment in a dream also means rising in station, both in this world and in the hereafter. If what one donates for this purpose is a house or a book or money in the dream, it means repentance from one’s sins and guidance on the straight path, or it could mean begetting a son.

    Offering a swine or wine as an endowment in a dream means rising in rank in the world, injustice, and causing harm to others.

  • Religious endowment:

    (Alms; Charity; Contribution; Donation; Fulfilling needs; Gift; Offering; Profits; Religious endowment) Making a religious endowment in a dream represents good deeds that are done for God’s pleasure, seeking to be in 142 IBN SEERIN’S Hi3 nearness and asking for His blessings. Making a religious endowment in a dream also means rising in station, both in this world and in the hereafter. If what one donates for this purpose is a house or a book or money in the dream, it means repentance from one’s sins and guidance on the straight path, or it could mean begetting a son.

    Offering a swine or wine as an endowment in a dream means rising in rank in the world, injustice, and causing harm to others.

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  • Strive:
  • Solution:
  • Attrition:

    (Anxiety; Perturbation; Uneasiness) Worries in a dream mean regret, repentance, blaming oneself, attrition and remorse.

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  • Disgust:

    (Asthma) Experiencing breathing difficulties in a dream means boredom, annoyance, weariness or disgust.

  • Weariness:

    (Asthma) Experiencing breathing difficulties in a dream means boredom, annoyance, weariness or disgust.

  • Boredom:

    (Asthma) Experiencing breathing difficulties in a dream means boredom, annoyance, weariness or disgust.

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  • Childbearing:

    (Childbearing; Planting) In a dream, a pregnancy indicates woman’s success, diligence and assiduity in pursuing her goals. In a dream, pregnancy also means receiving recognition, respect and prosperity. If a man sees himself pregnant in a dream, it means that he suffers from heaviness in his life, or it could represent one’s fear of exposing his problems in public.

    In general, pregnancy in a dream represents material gains. If a woman sees herself pregnant in a dream, it means difficulties and adversities beside some troubling secrets she maybe hiding. However, for a learned man, pregnancy in a dream may represent increase in his knowledge, while for a craftsman, it means achieving unrivalled excellence in his trade.

    Pregnancy in a dream also means being madly in love, or having passionate attachment to someone, or planting seeds in the wrong place, or beingbisexual or a deviate, or suffering from dropsy, or perhaps it could mean that a thief will enter his house to steal something, or to hide a stollen object, or that one may steal something and hide it from its true owner, or that he may get sick from eating spoiled food, or it could mean that he may bury a dear person, or that he is affected and a liar, or he may hide his 340 IBN SEERIN’S real beliefs and show a better standing in public, or it may represent an accident or a fire. As for a woman, her pregnancy in a dream means losing her virginity before marriage, or that she will marry an unsuitable person. If a barren woman sees her self pregnant in a dream, it means a bad harvest for that year, or it could mean a robbery in her neighborhood.

    If an unmarried woman or a young virgin sees herself pregnant in a dream, it means that she will find a compatible husband. Pregnancy in a dream has many meanings. In a dream, woman’s pregnancy means wealth, and man’s pregnancy means pain and sorrow.

    However, generally speaking, pregnancy in a dream also could mean prosperity and material success. The extent of wealth is measured by the number of months of such pregnancy and the size of one’s growth in the dream. This is true whether it is a man or a woman in the dream.

    If a young boy who is under the age of puberty sees himself pregnant in a dream, it represents his father, and if a young girl who is under the age of menstruation sees herself pregnant, then it represents her mother. If a man sees his wife pregnant in a dream, it reflects his desire for material success. If one sees his pregnant wife delivering a baby boy in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl and the opposite maybe true, except if it is common for the person in the dream to experience in wakefulness what he sees in his dream.

    If one sees himself delivering a baby from his mouth in a dream, it means his death, or it could mean that he will use poised and pleasant words in a conversation with someone he is careful not to offend. If a man gives birth to a baby boy in a dream, it means that he will carry a heavy burden then escape from it, or it could mean that he will vanquish his enemy, or it could mean that he may escape from a treacherous woman. If a pregnant woman sees herself delivering a child in a dream though having not had sexual intercourse with her husband, it means that she will discover a hidden treasure.

    A pregnant animal in a dream denotes benefits or profits.

  • Giving birth:

    (Giving birth) Seeing one’s wife giving birth to a son in a dream when in fact she is not pregnant means wealth. If a pregnant woman sees herself giving birth to a girl in a dream, it means a boy, and if she gives birth to a boy in the dream, it means a girl. Giving birth to a girl means relief from distress, while giving birth to a boy in the dream means distress and worries.

    If a sick DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 81 person sees his mother giving birth to him in a dream, it means the approach of his death, for a deceased person is wrapped in a shroud, while a newborn is wrapped with a receiving cloth. If the person in question is poor, it means that his financial conditions will change for the better, but if he is rich, it means restriction of his earnings, for a child is dependent on others while his move¬ ments are restricted. If a traveler sees his wife giving birth to a new child in a dream, it means obstruction of his travels and changes in his plans.

    If a woman gives birth to a child from her mouth in a dream, it means her death. If a man gives birth to a son in a dream it means illness, escape from danger or separation from a bad wife. If a man gives birth to a daughter in a dream, it means relief from distress, happiness or the birth of a child from his posterity who will grow to become a renowned leader.

    If a woman gives birth to a cat in a dream, it means that her child will grow to be a thief. Childbirth in a dream means relief from hardships, recovering from illness or departure from one’s home or neighbor¬ hood. Childbirth in a dream also means comfort, relaxation, payment of one’s debts and repentance from sin.

    If a woman gives birth to a son in a dream, it denotes the conclusion of her sufferings, glad tidings, payment of her debts or repentance from sin. If she gives birth to a daughter in the dream, then it means honor, prosperity and ease. If a poor man gives birth to a child in a dream, it means prosperity.

    If he is rich, then it means distress. If he is unmarried, it means a forthcoming marriage, so that his future wife will give the birth he saw in his dream. In general, if a man sees himself giving birth in a dream, it means his death or the death of a relative, or it could mean experiencing poverty.

    As for a needy person, it means relief or an escape. As for a merchant, giving birth in a dream means loss of his investment.

  • Gems of the eyes:

    (Children)

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  • Custodian:
  • Trustee:
  • Testator:

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  • Obtrusive person:

    (Demanding person; Ignorant person; Obstinate) It is common among the people of knowledge to describe an obtrusive person as a stone.

  • Obstinacy:

    (Obtrusive; Stubbornness) Obstinacy in a dream means witnessing or committing evil in wakefulness. To be obstinate, demanding and persistent in a dream also means running away from something, or turning one’s back to a fight, a dispute, an argument or a business. Obstinacy in a dream also may denote a presumptuous and an arrogant person who is disliked by people.

    Being obtrusive and obstinate in a dream also may mean being exasperated or annoyed about something, or that people dislike to be in his company and have serious reser¬ vations about him.

  • Carrying weight:

    (Burdens; Forbearance; Porter; Serving others)

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  • Coat 2:

    (Coat; Mix) To dip something into a conflicting element or to mix two incompatible substances or to coat something with the wrong element in a dream means creating suspicion or unlawfully mixing people’s monies and properties.

  • Mix:

    (Coat; Mix) To dip something into a conflicting element or to mix two incompatible substances or to coat something with the wrong element in a dream means creating suspicion or unlawfully mixing people’s monies and properties.

  • Receiving:

    (Allot; Distribute; Gift; Offer) Giving something in a dream indicates the value or worth of the giver. If one gives his workers or a needy person little money when they merit more, it denotes his disobedience to the commands of God Almighty, or straying away from the prophetic traditions. If one is denied what he is asking for in a dream, it means failure in his religious practices, suffering from the consequences of challenging others and arguing about religious laws, or it could represent one’s perilous pursuit of heedless thoughts.

    If a sick person sees himself paying his debts in a dream, it means his death or the spoiling of his wealth. If he is healthy, then it denotes a case of mental derangement, anger, lack of self-control or raising one’s voice unnecessarily. If a poor person sees himself paying someone’s debt in a dream, it means that he will receive benefits.

    Receiving monetary compensation by a court order in a dream denotes lawful earnings.

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  • Receiving:

    (Allot; Distribute; Gift; Offer) Giving something in a dream indicates the value or worth of the giver. If one gives his workers or a needy person little money when they merit more, it denotes his disobedience to the commands of God Almighty, or straying away from the prophetic traditions. If one is denied what he is asking for in a dream, it means failure in his religious practices, suffering from the consequences of challenging others and arguing about religious laws, or it could represent one’s perilous pursuit of heedless thoughts.

    If a sick person sees himself paying his debts in a dream, it means his death or the spoiling of his wealth. If he is healthy, then it denotes a case of mental derangement, anger, lack of self-control or raising one’s voice unnecessarily. If a poor person sees himself paying someone’s debt in a dream, it means that he will receive benefits.

    Receiving monetary compensation by a court order in a dream denotes lawful earnings.

  • Affiliation:

    (Affiliation; Alliance; Business association) In a dream, business partnership means happiness, or it could mean exaggeration in one’s devotion toward God Almighty, or it could mean going to extremes to attain business success and prosperity in the world. If a poor person sees himself involved in a business partnership with a rich person in a dream, it means that he will become wealthy. If he is hoping for an inheritance, then seeing this dream means that it will come through, and that he will find a business partner.

    If one sees himself in a business partnership with a known person in a dream, it means that they deal justly and equitably with one another. If one’s partner in the dream is an unknown old person, then he represents his grandfather and such a year will be a prosperous business year for him. If one’s partner in the dream is a young man, then he represents an enemy, or it could mean that his opponent will be fair in dealing with him, though the person in the dream will remain suspicious but cannot legally dissolve his partnership.

    Partnership in a dream also means sincerity, loyalty, truthfulness and fulfilling one’s agreement.

  • Business association:

    (Affiliation; Alliance; Business association) In a dream, business partnership means happiness, or it could mean exaggeration in one’s devotion toward God Almighty, or it could mean going to extremes to attain business success and prosperity in the world. If a poor person sees himself involved in a business partnership with a rich person in a dream, it means that he will become wealthy. If he is hoping for an inheritance, then seeing this dream means that it will come through, and that he will find a business partner.

    If one sees himself in a business partnership with a known person in a dream, it means that they deal justly and equitably with one another. If one’s partner in the dream is an unknown old person, then he represents his grandfather and such a year will be a prosperous business year for him. If one’s partner in the dream is a young man, then he represents an enemy, or it could mean that his opponent will be fair in dealing with him, though the person in the dream will remain suspicious but cannot legally dissolve his partnership.

    Partnership in a dream also means sincerity, loyalty, truthfulness and fulfilling one’s agreement.

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  • Maintenance:

    (Alimony; Maintenance) To provide support for one’s family and relatives in a dream mean prosperity, protection for one’s children and concern for one’s posterity. Whatever expenses one spends to support his family in a dream will be money he will receive in wakefulness. If one finds himself unwillingly giving family support or alimony to his wife in a dream, it means hypocrisy, or that he is nearing his death.

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  • Alimony:

    (Alimony; Maintenance) To provide support for one’s family and relatives in a dream mean prosperity, protection for one’s children and concern for one’s posterity. Whatever expenses one spends to support his family in a dream will be money he will receive in wakefulness. If one finds himself unwillingly giving family support or alimony to his wife in a dream, it means hypocrisy, or that he is nearing his death.

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  • Little boy:

    (Little boy) In a dream, a child carried in one’s arms means responsibility, distress and difficulties. A teenage child represents glad tidings or dispelling one’s worries. If one sees a beautiful looking teenage child entering a town or descending from the skies or appearing from beneath the ground in a dream, it means that the glad tidings will take effect shortly.

    Seeing a mature child in a dream means power and superiority. If one sees himself as a child learning in school in a dream, it means that he will repent of a common sin he is used to commit. If one sees one of the renowned people of knowledge sitting in a kindergarten and learning along with other children in a dream, it means that he will shift to ignorance, lose his rank, or that financial changes will affect his living conditions.

    If one sees himself receiving instructions like a child in a dream, it means that he will receive an inheritance from his mother. If one sees himself as a newborn child in a dream, it means that he will become wealthy and prosper. If a young boy sees himself in a dream as a child, it has a negative meaning.

    If a sick person sees himself as a child in a dream, it means his death. If one sees himself as a child being reprimanded in a dream, it means that he will be conquered. In a dream, if one looks in a mirror and sees his face to be that of a child, and if his wife is pregnant, it means that she will beget a son who will look like his father.

    Carrying a baby child in a dream means distress and burdens. A child in a dream represents a weak enemy who sometime shows friendliness and at other times demonstrates his enmity. If one sees that his wife has just delivered children who are playing around him in a dream, it means distress or misfortune and the consequences could be either good or bad.

    Carrying a child in a dream means managing an inheritance or a financial investment. If an elderly person sees himself roaming as a little child in a dream, it means that he will commit an act of ignorance or lose his dignity, ideals or sense of honor. On the other hand, if such an elderly person who sees himself in a dream as a little child is suffering from depression or financial difficulties or health problems, then it means relief from distress and good health and that he will become free from his sins, like the day his mother gave birth to him.

    If one sees that he has a little child who disdains from coming near his father in the dream, it means financial promotion and enjoyment of one’s life. If one sees a little child screaming in his lap in a dream, it means that he plays a string instrument. Children in a dream also could mean either sorrow and pain or happiness and joy.

    If they are one’s own children in the dream, then they mean temptation with money. Children in a dream also could mean contentment with little or loss of one’s means to earn his livelihood or they could mean money or marriage or a flourishing business. Bereavement of a child in a dream means the opposite in real life.

    It also means rejoicing, reunions, pleasures and earning respect. Bereavement of a child in a dream is sometimes interpreted to portray an intention of one’s children or wife to separate from the family. A little male child in a dream represents worries, responsibilities, hard work, catering to ignorant people or dealing with trivial and time wasting people.

    If a prisoner sees himself carrying a little girl in his dream, it means that he will be released from his prison. If one who is going through hard times sees himself holding a little girl in a dream, it means that his adversities will be lifted. If he is poor, it means that he will thrive for success and the little girl then represents his glad tidings.

Practical Insights to Embrace the Wisdom of Your Dreams

• Reach Out for Support

  If your dreams indicate feelings of isolation or overwhelm, take it as a prompt to reach out. Share your experiences and challenges with trusted friends or family. Joining parenting groups or online communities can provide a sense of belonging.

  Engaging with others who face similar struggles not only validates your feelings but also enriches your parenting journey. Simply talking about your dreams can open doors to discussions about fears and successes, creating a supportive environment where wisdom is exchanged, and burdens lightened.

• Journaling Your Dream Insights

  Keep a dream journal where you can write down your dreams about parenthood. Reflecting on these nightly explorations can help you identify recurring themes or insights related to your parenting challenges. This practice may unveil subconscious worries or desires, shaping your approach to daily life as a parent.

  By noting down the emotions tied to these dreams, you may gain clarity and motivation to address concerns directly and cultivate a more fulfilling parenting experience.

• Practice Mindfulness and Self-Care

  Incorporate mindfulness practices into your routine. Recognizing the high demands of parenthood, it is crucial to take time for yourself. Engage in activities that rejuvenate you, be it reading, exercising, or simply meditating.

  When you prioritize your well-being, your dreams may reflect a more tranquil state of mind, reducing feelings of being overwhelmed. A balanced mother or father can more effectively share and tackle challenges, fostering a nurturing atmosphere for both you and your children.

FAQs

• What do dreams about sharing my parenting challenges mean?

  Dreaming about sharing parenting challenges often symbolizes a deep-seated desire for community and collaboration. It reflects the emotional weight of your experiences and can indicate a longing for support. Such dreams suggest that you might benefit from connecting with others in similar situations to relieve stress and cultivate a sense of belonging.

• Are dreams about parenting always negative?

  Not necessarily. While some dreams about parenting may highlight stress or anxiety, they can also celebrate joy, connection, and growth. These dreams can serve as reflections of both challenges and the fulfilling experiences of nurturing your children, indicating that every aspect of parenting is interconnected.

• How do I interpret specific symbols in my parenting dreams?

  Symbols in dreams can vary widely, but often they relate directly to your emotional states or specific situations. For instance, if you dream of asking others for help, it may indicate your current struggles with stress and a need for external support. Consider the feelings associated with those symbols to uncover deeper meanings.

• Can my parenting dreams indicate future outcomes?

  While dreams can provide insights into your subconscious feelings and worries, they do not predict the future. However, they can help you identify areas in your life where change or attention is needed for personal growth and harmony within your family dynamic.

• Is there a connection between dreams and waking life experiences?

  Absolutely. Dreams often mirror waking life experiences and emotions. If you're facing challenges in your parenting journey, your dreams may reflect those feelings, serving as a tool for reflection and insight into how to navigate your challenges more effectively.

References

• Sirin, Ibni. 'The Interpretation of Dreams.'
• Meyer, Linda. 'Parenting and Spiritual Growth: The Connection of Dreams.'
• Hafez, K. 'Dream Psychology in Everyday Life.'