Understanding the Dream of Choosing the Right Spouse
Dreams about selecting the right spouse hold immense significance and often resonate deeply with our innermost desires and fears. In the journey of life, marriage is a profound commitment, and our subconscious frequently reflects this reality through dreams. Whether you find yourself contemplating the qualities of a potential partner, reliving moments shared with loved ones, or navigating the uncertainty of romantic choices, these dreams can reveal much about your emotional state and personal aspirations.
According to the interpretations found in Ibni Sirin’s dream library, these dreams can signify one's yearnings for companionship, the apprehension that comes with commitment, and even the spiritual guidance we may receive in our quest for a soulmate. Recognizing the nuances within these dreams allows us to peel back layers of meaning, connecting the dreaming experience to our spiritual and relational well-being.
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- Dreams about choosing a spouse often reflect personal desires and spiritual introspection.
- Such dreams can indicate anxieties or hopes related to commitment and partnership.
- Paying attention to the emotions felt during these dreams can guide your waking relationships.
Symbols
- emotional-factors
- partner
- Affiliation:
(Affiliation; Alliance; Business association) In a dream, business partnership means happiness, or it could mean exaggeration in one’s devotion toward God Almighty, or it could mean going to extremes to attain business success and prosperity in the world. If a poor person sees himself involved in a business partnership with a rich person in a dream, it means that he will become wealthy. If he is hoping for an inheritance, then seeing this dream means that it will come through, and that he will find a business partner.
If one sees himself in a business partnership with a known person in a dream, it means that they deal justly and equitably with one another. If one’s partner in the dream is an unknown old person, then he represents his grandfather and such a year will be a prosperous business year for him. If one’s partner in the dream is a young man, then he represents an enemy, or it could mean that his opponent will be fair in dealing with him, though the person in the dream will remain suspicious but cannot legally dissolve his partnership.
Partnership in a dream also means sincerity, loyalty, truthfulness and fulfilling one’s agreement.
- Business association:
(Affiliation; Alliance; Business association) In a dream, business partnership means happiness, or it could mean exaggeration in one’s devotion toward God Almighty, or it could mean going to extremes to attain business success and prosperity in the world. If a poor person sees himself involved in a business partnership with a rich person in a dream, it means that he will become wealthy. If he is hoping for an inheritance, then seeing this dream means that it will come through, and that he will find a business partner.
If one sees himself in a business partnership with a known person in a dream, it means that they deal justly and equitably with one another. If one’s partner in the dream is an unknown old person, then he represents his grandfather and such a year will be a prosperous business year for him. If one’s partner in the dream is a young man, then he represents an enemy, or it could mean that his opponent will be fair in dealing with him, though the person in the dream will remain suspicious but cannot legally dissolve his partnership.
Partnership in a dream also means sincerity, loyalty, truthfulness and fulfilling one’s agreement.
- Alliance:
- Affiliation:
- mate
- Sharing a table:
(Sharing a table; Table companion) To share a table with a deceased person in a dream means that one will be paying a pecuniary penalty that will be exacted by the authorities. Sharing a table with someone who is away on a trip in a dream means receiving news from him. Sharing a table with evil companions, evil spirits, satans, or jinn in a dream means fighting against a crime ring.
- Table companion:
(Sharing a table; Table companion) To share a table with a deceased person in a dream means that one will be paying a pecuniary penalty that will be exacted by the authorities. Sharing a table with someone who is away on a trip in a dream means receiving news from him. Sharing a table with evil companions, evil spirits, satans, or jinn in a dream means fighting against a crime ring.
- Dining table:
- Sharing a table:
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- Philander:
(Flirting; Love poems; Philander) Courting a woman or singing love songs to her or displaying amorous behavior for her in public in a dream represents someone who divulges people’s secrets.
- Vow:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Solemn promise:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Philander:
- picking
- Relish:
- Pickax:
(Digging) A pickax in a dream represents strength, resoluteness, or contemplating good deeds. A pickax in a dream also may represent an opportu¬ nistic person who draws people to himself for selfish interests, interferes in everything, or craves wealth.
- Seizing:
(Holding; Seizing) Gripping to somethingby the hand in a dream means buying a new property, renewal of one’s control over something, getting married or begetting a son.
- selecting
- Talbiyyah:
( arb . Talbiyah ) Responding to a call, or uttering and repeating a formula “Labbaika Allahumma Labbaik,” during the pilgrimage season in a dream means that one will capture his enemy and bring him to justice. Loud answering to a call in a dream means complaining before a judge, and winning the case thereafter.
- Vow:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Solemn promise:
(Immolation; Sacrifice; Vow) In a dream, an offering represents the wife who is the delight of her husband, or the child who is the delight of his father. An offering in a dream also represents one’s good deeds, although it also could mean trouble, adversities, enmity, dispute, fight, argument with one’s family, an invasion, or profits from hunting.
- Talbiyyah:
- spouse
- Golden cage:
(Cage; Digging a grave; Duel; Golden cage; Pearl; Sanctuary; Silver cage) Marriage in a dream represents the providence of God Almighty and care for His servants. Marriage in a dream also means imprisonment, indebtedness, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 267 sorrow, distress, depression, carrying a liability, or endeavoring to achieve a high ranking position. If one marries a known woman in his dream, it means that he will endeavor to satisfy the normal responsibilities of a husband.
If one marries an unknown woman, and if he could not see her in his dream, it denotes the nearing of his death, or it could mean moving from an old house into a new one. If a sick woman sees herself getting married to a man she does not recognize or know his name in a dream, it means that she may die from her illness. If the man who sees himself getting married in the dream qualifies, it means that he will attain a high ranking job or a suitable position.
If one’s wedding ceremony is made with witnesses only in the dream, it means that he has made a covenant with God Almighty. If he performs a traditional wedding ceremony with its celebrations and festivities in the dream, it means a new job, or it could mean acquiring fame, or becoming renowned for one’s good reputation or character. Marriage in a dream is also interpreted in association with a trade.
If one marries a woman who dies shortly after her wedding in the dream, it means that he will perform a job that earns him nothing but hard labor, toiling and stress. If one marries an adulteress in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer. If one marries a vicious, aggressive or a dominating wife in a dream, it means that his movements will be hampered with various restrictions.
If one marries a deceased woman in a dream, it means that he will revive a profitable project he had earlier abandoned. If a man offers his mother in marriage to one of his friends in a dream, it means that he will sell his house. If a pregnant woman sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl.
If she sees herself in her wedding night in a dream, it means that she will beget a son. If a mother who has a son sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will marry off her son. In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of an unwed woman in a dream means benefits.
If a woman marries a deceased man in a dream, it means that she will become lost and impoverished. If a married man sees himself getting married to a second woman in a dream, it means profits. To marry the daughter of a known man of knowledge in a dream means prosperity.
If a sick woman marries a man of knowledge in her dream, it means recovering from her illness. If a man sees himself marrying a living relative who is in a degree of consanguinity that precludes such a marriage in a dream, it means that he will sever his ties with such a relative, or with her family. Otherwise, if that relative is already dead, it means that he will contact her immediate relatives and establish a friendly relationship with them.
- Silver cage:
(Cage; Digging a grave; Duel; Golden cage; Pearl; Sanctuary; Silver cage) Marriage in a dream represents the providence of God Almighty and care for His servants. Marriage in a dream also means imprisonment, indebtedness, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 267 sorrow, distress, depression, carrying a liability, or endeavoring to achieve a high ranking position. If one marries a known woman in his dream, it means that he will endeavor to satisfy the normal responsibilities of a husband.
If one marries an unknown woman, and if he could not see her in his dream, it denotes the nearing of his death, or it could mean moving from an old house into a new one. If a sick woman sees herself getting married to a man she does not recognize or know his name in a dream, it means that she may die from her illness. If the man who sees himself getting married in the dream qualifies, it means that he will attain a high ranking job or a suitable position.
If one’s wedding ceremony is made with witnesses only in the dream, it means that he has made a covenant with God Almighty. If he performs a traditional wedding ceremony with its celebrations and festivities in the dream, it means a new job, or it could mean acquiring fame, or becoming renowned for one’s good reputation or character. Marriage in a dream is also interpreted in association with a trade.
If one marries a woman who dies shortly after her wedding in the dream, it means that he will perform a job that earns him nothing but hard labor, toiling and stress. If one marries an adulteress in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer. If one marries a vicious, aggressive or a dominating wife in a dream, it means that his movements will be hampered with various restrictions.
If one marries a deceased woman in a dream, it means that he will revive a profitable project he had earlier abandoned. If a man offers his mother in marriage to one of his friends in a dream, it means that he will sell his house. If a pregnant woman sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl.
If she sees herself in her wedding night in a dream, it means that she will beget a son. If a mother who has a son sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will marry off her son. In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of an unwed woman in a dream means benefits.
If a woman marries a deceased man in a dream, it means that she will become lost and impoverished. If a married man sees himself getting married to a second woman in a dream, it means profits. To marry the daughter of a known man of knowledge in a dream means prosperity.
If a sick woman marries a man of knowledge in her dream, it means recovering from her illness. If a man sees himself marrying a living relative who is in a degree of consanguinity that precludes such a marriage in a dream, it means that he will sever his ties with such a relative, or with her family. Otherwise, if that relative is already dead, it means that he will contact her immediate relatives and establish a friendly relationship with them.
- Yoke of matrimony:
- Golden cage:
Practical Tips for Navigating Spousal Selection
- Reflect on Your Dream's Elements
Take time to journal or meditate on the specific details from your dream about choosing a spouse. Were there significant symbols that stood out? Did you feel joy, fear, or confusion during the dream?
Identifying these elements can provide clarity on your current desires or worries regarding relationships.
- Seek Guidance Through Spirituality
Engage in prayer or spiritual practices to seek divine guidance concerning your romantic choices. This approach allows you to connect with your inner wisdom, bringing light to the attributes you seek in a partner. Whether through sacred texts or personal reflection, seeking spiritual help can illuminate your path toward understanding and fulfillment.
- Communicate Openly with Loved Ones
Discuss your feelings and thoughts about marriage with trusted friends or family. Sharing your dreams can create a supportive environment where you can explore worries or hopes. Having open dialogues about romantic decisions fosters genuine connections and helps you understand your emotional landscape better.
- Trust Your Intuition
Ultimately, trust your instincts when navigating your personal relationships. Dreams provide insight but it's essential to let your feelings guide you in choosing a spouse. Being mindful of how a potential partner aligns with your values and aspirations can facilitate a more fulfilling union.
- Educate Yourself About Relationships
Consider reading about healthy relationships, communication, and love languages. Educating yourself on these topics empowers you to make informed decisions about your partner, ensuring that your choices resonate with both your dreams and your reality.
FAQs
- What does it mean to dream about choosing the wrong spouse?
Dreaming of selecting the wrong spouse can reflect underlying fears about commitment or anxiety regarding making the right choice in relationships. It may indicate that you are feeling uncertain about a current relationship or facing societal pressures related to partnership.
- Can recurring dreams about marriage choices indicate something deeper?
Yes, recurring dreams often highlight unresolved feelings or persistent thoughts. If you find yourself dreaming frequently about choosing a spouse, it may suggest a strong desire to explore your thoughts on love, partnership, or your long-term aspirations.
- How can I interpret the emotions in my dream about a spouse?
Emotions felt during the dream are crucial in interpreting its meaning. Positive feelings may indicate a wish for love and connection, while negative emotions like fear or confusion might reveal anxieties about relationships. By reflecting on these feelings, you can gain insights into your emotional state.
- What should I do if my dream conflicts with my waking feelings about marriage?
If your dreams conflict with your real-life feelings, it's a vital opportunity to introspect. Assess your waking experiences and feelings regarding partnership, and consider discussing any discrepancies with someone you trust, which may help bring clarity.
- Are dreams about spouses more common for those considering marriage?
Yes, individuals contemplating marriage or serious relationships may experience more dreams centered around choosing a spouse. Such dreams often serve as reflections of their hopes, fears, and societal pressures, allowing the dreamer to navigate personal emotions related to commitment.
