Unlocking the Secrets: Dreaming of Ignoring Commitment in Marriage
Dreams serve as a remarkable gateway into our subconscious, revealing our deepest fears, desires, and anxieties. When one dreams of ignoring commitments in marriage, it can tap into profound emotional landscapes, often reflecting personal struggles within relationships. Such dreams may not signal intent but rather mirror inner conflicts—balancing one’s desire for freedom and the weight of marital responsibilities.
This reflects traditional perspectives as found in Ibni Sirin’s interpretations, where the symbols in our dreams speak volumes about our waking lives. Understanding these dreams can help individuals confront their feelings about commitment, trust, and personal aspirations, guiding them towards harmonious relationships and self-awareness.
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- Dreams of ignoring commitment can reflect underlying anxieties about relationships.
- Such dreams may indicate a struggle between desire and responsibility.
- Awareness of personal fears may aid in addressing relationship dynamics.
Symbols
- marriage
- Golden cage:
(Cage; Digging a grave; Duel; Golden cage; Pearl; Sanctuary; Silver cage) Marriage in a dream represents the providence of God Almighty and care for His servants. Marriage in a dream also means imprisonment, indebtedness, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 267 sorrow, distress, depression, carrying a liability, or endeavoring to achieve a high ranking position. If one marries a known woman in his dream, it means that he will endeavor to satisfy the normal responsibilities of a husband.
If one marries an unknown woman, and if he could not see her in his dream, it denotes the nearing of his death, or it could mean moving from an old house into a new one. If a sick woman sees herself getting married to a man she does not recognize or know his name in a dream, it means that she may die from her illness. If the man who sees himself getting married in the dream qualifies, it means that he will attain a high ranking job or a suitable position.
If one’s wedding ceremony is made with witnesses only in the dream, it means that he has made a covenant with God Almighty. If he performs a traditional wedding ceremony with its celebrations and festivities in the dream, it means a new job, or it could mean acquiring fame, or becoming renowned for one’s good reputation or character. Marriage in a dream is also interpreted in association with a trade.
If one marries a woman who dies shortly after her wedding in the dream, it means that he will perform a job that earns him nothing but hard labor, toiling and stress. If one marries an adulteress in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer. If one marries a vicious, aggressive or a dominating wife in a dream, it means that his movements will be hampered with various restrictions.
If one marries a deceased woman in a dream, it means that he will revive a profitable project he had earlier abandoned. If a man offers his mother in marriage to one of his friends in a dream, it means that he will sell his house. If a pregnant woman sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl.
If she sees herself in her wedding night in a dream, it means that she will beget a son. If a mother who has a son sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will marry off her son. In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of an unwed woman in a dream means benefits.
If a woman marries a deceased man in a dream, it means that she will become lost and impoverished. If a married man sees himself getting married to a second woman in a dream, it means profits. To marry the daughter of a known man of knowledge in a dream means prosperity.
If a sick woman marries a man of knowledge in her dream, it means recovering from her illness. If a man sees himself marrying a living relative who is in a degree of consanguinity that precludes such a marriage in a dream, it means that he will sever his ties with such a relative, or with her family. Otherwise, if that relative is already dead, it means that he will contact her immediate relatives and establish a friendly relationship with them.
- Silver cage:
(Cage; Digging a grave; Duel; Golden cage; Pearl; Sanctuary; Silver cage) Marriage in a dream represents the providence of God Almighty and care for His servants. Marriage in a dream also means imprisonment, indebtedness, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 267 sorrow, distress, depression, carrying a liability, or endeavoring to achieve a high ranking position. If one marries a known woman in his dream, it means that he will endeavor to satisfy the normal responsibilities of a husband.
If one marries an unknown woman, and if he could not see her in his dream, it denotes the nearing of his death, or it could mean moving from an old house into a new one. If a sick woman sees herself getting married to a man she does not recognize or know his name in a dream, it means that she may die from her illness. If the man who sees himself getting married in the dream qualifies, it means that he will attain a high ranking job or a suitable position.
If one’s wedding ceremony is made with witnesses only in the dream, it means that he has made a covenant with God Almighty. If he performs a traditional wedding ceremony with its celebrations and festivities in the dream, it means a new job, or it could mean acquiring fame, or becoming renowned for one’s good reputation or character. Marriage in a dream is also interpreted in association with a trade.
If one marries a woman who dies shortly after her wedding in the dream, it means that he will perform a job that earns him nothing but hard labor, toiling and stress. If one marries an adulteress in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer. If one marries a vicious, aggressive or a dominating wife in a dream, it means that his movements will be hampered with various restrictions.
If one marries a deceased woman in a dream, it means that he will revive a profitable project he had earlier abandoned. If a man offers his mother in marriage to one of his friends in a dream, it means that he will sell his house. If a pregnant woman sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl.
If she sees herself in her wedding night in a dream, it means that she will beget a son. If a mother who has a son sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will marry off her son. In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of an unwed woman in a dream means benefits.
If a woman marries a deceased man in a dream, it means that she will become lost and impoverished. If a married man sees himself getting married to a second woman in a dream, it means profits. To marry the daughter of a known man of knowledge in a dream means prosperity.
If a sick woman marries a man of knowledge in her dream, it means recovering from her illness. If a man sees himself marrying a living relative who is in a degree of consanguinity that precludes such a marriage in a dream, it means that he will sever his ties with such a relative, or with her family. Otherwise, if that relative is already dead, it means that he will contact her immediate relatives and establish a friendly relationship with them.
- Engagement:
(Betrothal; Marriage. See Book)
- Golden cage:
- obligation
- Carrying weight:
(Burdens; Forbearance; Porter; Serving others)
- Burden:
(Carrying weight; Forbearance; Porter; Serving others)
- Dower:
(Bridal dower) If one gives a dower for an undefined purpose in his dream, it means that he will fulfill his obligatory duties or comply with a religious injunction.
- Carrying weight:
- dedication
- Confess:
If one sees himself acknowledging devotion or worship of another human being in a dream, it means enmity with that person. But, if one sees himself confessing his wrongdoing in a dream, it means regaining honor, dignity and true repentance. To confess a murder in a dream means that one will attain peace, leadership or advancement to a supervisory job.
- Devotion:
If one sees himself acknowledging devotion or worship of another human being in a dream, it means enmity with that person. But, if one sees himself confessing his wrongdoing in a dream, it means regaining honor, dignity and true repentance. To confess a murder in a dream means that one will attain peace, leadership or advancement to a supervisory job.
- Homage:
(Contract; Homage) Making a pledge of allegiance to the blessed family of God’s Prophet, upon whom be peace, or to their descendents, or true gnostics and leaders among his followers in a dream means following true guidance, walking on the straight path and truly observing the divine laws and abiding by them. Making a pledge of allegiance to the governor of a seaport city in a dream means winning victory over one’s enemy, glad tidings, honoring piety, being grateful to one’s Lord and oft-praying for salvation and forgiveness. Making a pledge of allegiance to an impious person or to an evil companion in a dream means helping evil people.
Making a pledge to someone under a tree in a dream means receiving blessings from God Almighty.
- Confess:
- disregarding
- Omit:
(Forget) Omitting something in a dream means worries, trouble, misplacing things, or heedlessness.
- Heedlessness:
- Disregard:
- Omit:
- commitment
- Pledge:
- Conveying a secret:
(Entrust. Also see Castration; Confiding)
- Confess:
If one sees himself acknowledging devotion or worship of another human being in a dream, it means enmity with that person. But, if one sees himself confessing his wrongdoing in a dream, it means regaining honor, dignity and true repentance. To confess a murder in a dream means that one will attain peace, leadership or advancement to a supervisory job.
- union
- Hard work:
(Hard work; Toil) Hard labor in a dream means comfort in wakefulness. If a businessman or a rich person sees himself working as a laborer in a dream it represents conceit and a sham, or that he is deceiving people to control their money, or defrauding them of their assets. If one sees himself laboring in a dream, it means thriftiness, discretion, or virtuous along with satisfaction and ease in one’s life.
Laboring in a dream also means a misfortune or one’s peril.
- Toil:
(Hard work; Toil) Hard labor in a dream means comfort in wakefulness. If a businessman or a rich person sees himself working as a laborer in a dream it represents conceit and a sham, or that he is deceiving people to control their money, or defrauding them of their assets. If one sees himself laboring in a dream, it means thriftiness, discretion, or virtuous along with satisfaction and ease in one’s life.
Laboring in a dream also means a misfortune or one’s peril.
- Sham:
(Hard work; Toil) Hard labor in a dream means comfort in wakefulness. If a businessman or a rich person sees himself working as a laborer in a dream it represents conceit and a sham, or that he is deceiving people to control their money, or defrauding them of their assets. If one sees himself laboring in a dream, it means thriftiness, discretion, or virtuous along with satisfaction and ease in one’s life.
Laboring in a dream also means a misfortune or one’s peril.
- Hard work:
- ignoring
- Silence:
(Abstaining from reply; Desistance; Dumbness; Muteness)
- Omit:
(Forget) Omitting something in a dream means worries, trouble, misplacing things, or heedlessness.
- Talbiyyah:
( arb . Talbiyah ) Responding to a call, or uttering and repeating a formula “Labbaika Allahumma Labbaik,” during the pilgrimage season in a dream means that one will capture his enemy and bring him to justice. Loud answering to a call in a dream means complaining before a judge, and winning the case thereafter.
- Silence:
- overlooking
- Omit:
(Forget) Omitting something in a dream means worries, trouble, misplacing things, or heedlessness.
- Examine:
(Touch) In a dream, examining means spying, eavesdropping or paying attention to a conversation one should not listen to.
- Bias:
In a dream, bragging represents a tyrant, an unjust person, or an aggressor. If the person seen in a dream is already dead, it is a warning for his family. It also means failure to satisfy one’s religious obligations.
If the person noted in the dream is sick, then it means that he may be nearing his death. If he is healthy, then bragging while yawning in a dream means affliction with an illness.
- Omit:
- matrimony
- Golden cage:
(Cage; Digging a grave; Duel; Golden cage; Pearl; Sanctuary; Silver cage) Marriage in a dream represents the providence of God Almighty and care for His servants. Marriage in a dream also means imprisonment, indebtedness, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 267 sorrow, distress, depression, carrying a liability, or endeavoring to achieve a high ranking position. If one marries a known woman in his dream, it means that he will endeavor to satisfy the normal responsibilities of a husband.
If one marries an unknown woman, and if he could not see her in his dream, it denotes the nearing of his death, or it could mean moving from an old house into a new one. If a sick woman sees herself getting married to a man she does not recognize or know his name in a dream, it means that she may die from her illness. If the man who sees himself getting married in the dream qualifies, it means that he will attain a high ranking job or a suitable position.
If one’s wedding ceremony is made with witnesses only in the dream, it means that he has made a covenant with God Almighty. If he performs a traditional wedding ceremony with its celebrations and festivities in the dream, it means a new job, or it could mean acquiring fame, or becoming renowned for one’s good reputation or character. Marriage in a dream is also interpreted in association with a trade.
If one marries a woman who dies shortly after her wedding in the dream, it means that he will perform a job that earns him nothing but hard labor, toiling and stress. If one marries an adulteress in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer. If one marries a vicious, aggressive or a dominating wife in a dream, it means that his movements will be hampered with various restrictions.
If one marries a deceased woman in a dream, it means that he will revive a profitable project he had earlier abandoned. If a man offers his mother in marriage to one of his friends in a dream, it means that he will sell his house. If a pregnant woman sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl.
If she sees herself in her wedding night in a dream, it means that she will beget a son. If a mother who has a son sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will marry off her son. In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of an unwed woman in a dream means benefits.
If a woman marries a deceased man in a dream, it means that she will become lost and impoverished. If a married man sees himself getting married to a second woman in a dream, it means profits. To marry the daughter of a known man of knowledge in a dream means prosperity.
If a sick woman marries a man of knowledge in her dream, it means recovering from her illness. If a man sees himself marrying a living relative who is in a degree of consanguinity that precludes such a marriage in a dream, it means that he will sever his ties with such a relative, or with her family. Otherwise, if that relative is already dead, it means that he will contact her immediate relatives and establish a friendly relationship with them.
- Silver cage:
(Cage; Digging a grave; Duel; Golden cage; Pearl; Sanctuary; Silver cage) Marriage in a dream represents the providence of God Almighty and care for His servants. Marriage in a dream also means imprisonment, indebtedness, DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 267 sorrow, distress, depression, carrying a liability, or endeavoring to achieve a high ranking position. If one marries a known woman in his dream, it means that he will endeavor to satisfy the normal responsibilities of a husband.
If one marries an unknown woman, and if he could not see her in his dream, it denotes the nearing of his death, or it could mean moving from an old house into a new one. If a sick woman sees herself getting married to a man she does not recognize or know his name in a dream, it means that she may die from her illness. If the man who sees himself getting married in the dream qualifies, it means that he will attain a high ranking job or a suitable position.
If one’s wedding ceremony is made with witnesses only in the dream, it means that he has made a covenant with God Almighty. If he performs a traditional wedding ceremony with its celebrations and festivities in the dream, it means a new job, or it could mean acquiring fame, or becoming renowned for one’s good reputation or character. Marriage in a dream is also interpreted in association with a trade.
If one marries a woman who dies shortly after her wedding in the dream, it means that he will perform a job that earns him nothing but hard labor, toiling and stress. If one marries an adulteress in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer. If one marries a vicious, aggressive or a dominating wife in a dream, it means that his movements will be hampered with various restrictions.
If one marries a deceased woman in a dream, it means that he will revive a profitable project he had earlier abandoned. If a man offers his mother in marriage to one of his friends in a dream, it means that he will sell his house. If a pregnant woman sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will give birth to a girl.
If she sees herself in her wedding night in a dream, it means that she will beget a son. If a mother who has a son sees herself getting married in a dream, it means that she will marry off her son. In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of an unwed woman in a dream means benefits.
If a woman marries a deceased man in a dream, it means that she will become lost and impoverished. If a married man sees himself getting married to a second woman in a dream, it means profits. To marry the daughter of a known man of knowledge in a dream means prosperity.
If a sick woman marries a man of knowledge in her dream, it means recovering from her illness. If a man sees himself marrying a living relative who is in a degree of consanguinity that precludes such a marriage in a dream, it means that he will sever his ties with such a relative, or with her family. Otherwise, if that relative is already dead, it means that he will contact her immediate relatives and establish a friendly relationship with them.
- Matrimony:
- Golden cage:
Practical Insights for Navigating Relationship Dreams
- Reflect on Personal Feelings
Take time to consider how you feel about your current relationship. Are there elements that cause unrest or uncertainty? Journaling your thoughts may provide clarity.
This reflection can point towards hidden anxieties or desires that need addressing. Communicating with your partner about your feelings and dreams can also bring the relationship into focus and strengthen understanding. Consider if there are specific commitments or responsibilities that feel overwhelming, and confront these directly or discuss them openly with your partner.
Engaging in self-reflection combined with dialogue fosters healthier dynamics.
- Seek Counseling if Needed
Sometimes dreams reflect deeper issues that may benefit from professional counseling. Speaking with a therapist can guide you in understanding recurring themes in your dreams and their impact on your waking life. A therapist can provide tools and frameworks to navigate marital issues, explore personal fears, and improve relationship dynamics.
It is essential to seek help early, especially if you feel overwhelmed by emotions or distractions. Counseling supports individuals and couples in addressing conflicts, setting healthy boundaries, and aligning personal aspirations with partnership responsibilities.
- Engage in Open Communication
Open dialogue with your partner about your dreams can promote understanding and intimacy. Share your feelings about the dreams without placing blame or accusation. Emphasizing the dream experience rather than attaching it to reality allows both partners to discuss underlying feelings regarding the relationship.
This practice can strengthen trust and help resolve unspoken tensions. Discussing each other's perceptions and aspirations can reveal unmet needs that might be weighing on both individuals. Open communication not only builds stronger partnerships but also enriches personal growth.
FAQs
- What does it mean to dream about ignoring commitment in marriage?
Dreams of ignoring commitment can symbolize conflicts in your feelings regarding your relationship. Such dreams often indicate a struggle to balance personal desires with the responsibilities that come with marriage. They may reveal anxieties about fidelity, contentment, and emotional availability. Reflecting on these feelings can guide one toward addressing deeper issues that may need resolution.
- Can these dreams indicate real-life issues in a marriage?
Yes, dreams about ignoring commitments often mirror actual emotional challenges in a relationship. They could highlight feelings of neglect, dissatisfaction, or fear of losing oneself in marriage. Recognizing and discussing these themes in a constructive manner can help couples navigate their relationship more effectively.
- What should I do if I frequently have this dream?
If these dreams recur, it may be beneficial to engage in self-reflection or explore your feelings about the marriage. Consider journaling or seeking guidance through therapy. Increasing communication with your partner about any both positive and negative feelings may be helpful in which you can navigate these complex emotions together.
- Are all dreams about ignoring commitments negative?
Not necessarily. While many dreams about ignoring commitments can underscore anxiety or struggle, they can also provide valuable insights into what may be lacking in a relationship. Sometimes, they may encourage a dialogue about necessary changes or reaffirmation of commitments that may fulfill both partners' needs.
- How can I use my dreams to improve my relationship?
Dreams can serve as reflective tools. By examining the symbols and emotions within them, partners can gain insights into their subconscious concerns. Discussing these revelations with each other can lead to growth and better understanding in the relationship, aligning both partners on a shared path forward.
