Exploring the Significance of Dreams Where Parents Support Your Decisions

Dreams where a parent supports your decisions can be profoundly impactful and often reflect a deep-seated desire for guidance and reassurance. In moments of uncertainty, our minds reach out to those who have played pivotal roles in our lives, particularly parents, seeking their wisdom in dream form. This phenomenon doesn't just reveal our thoughts on choices we are facing but also signifies the emotional ties and bonds we cherish.

Such dreams can be comforting, providing a sense of validation and acceptance for the decisions we wrestle with, whether regarding our careers, relationships, or personal growth. Understanding these dreams through the lens of Ibni Sirin's interpretations can offer deeper insights, exploring the balance between our inherent desires for familial support and the spiritual symbolism at play in our subconscious. By grasping these meanings, we can navigate personal dilemmas with a more enlightened perspective.

• A parent’s support in dreams often signifies reassurance in decision-making.
• These dreams reflect inner desires for approval and guidance.
• They can also indicate a deep connection and trust with family.
• Interpretation varies based on personal circumstances and emotions.

Symbols

• assisting
  • Monitor 1:

    (Students’ leader; Monitor; Pupil) In a dream, an assistant teacher represents an innovator or someone who advises others the right way, though remains attached to his own innovative ideas.

  • Pupil:

    (Students’ leader; Monitor; Pupil) In a dream, an assistant teacher represents an innovator or someone who advises others the right way, though remains attached to his own innovative ideas.

  • Assistant judge:

    (Assistant judge) Seeing the assistant magistrate in a dream means either following the traditions of the righteous ones, or the avenues of innovation.

• parent
  • Custodian:
  • Trustee:
  • Little boy:

    (Little boy) In a dream, a child carried in one’s arms means responsibility, distress and difficulties. A teenage child represents glad tidings or dispelling one’s worries. If one sees a beautiful looking teenage child entering a town or descending from the skies or appearing from beneath the ground in a dream, it means that the glad tidings will take effect shortly.

    Seeing a mature child in a dream means power and superiority. If one sees himself as a child learning in school in a dream, it means that he will repent of a common sin he is used to commit. If one sees one of the renowned people of knowledge sitting in a kindergarten and learning along with other children in a dream, it means that he will shift to ignorance, lose his rank, or that financial changes will affect his living conditions.

    If one sees himself receiving instructions like a child in a dream, it means that he will receive an inheritance from his mother. If one sees himself as a newborn child in a dream, it means that he will become wealthy and prosper. If a young boy sees himself in a dream as a child, it has a negative meaning.

    If a sick person sees himself as a child in a dream, it means his death. If one sees himself as a child being reprimanded in a dream, it means that he will be conquered. In a dream, if one looks in a mirror and sees his face to be that of a child, and if his wife is pregnant, it means that she will beget a son who will look like his father.

    Carrying a baby child in a dream means distress and burdens. A child in a dream represents a weak enemy who sometime shows friendliness and at other times demonstrates his enmity. If one sees that his wife has just delivered children who are playing around him in a dream, it means distress or misfortune and the consequences could be either good or bad.

    Carrying a child in a dream means managing an inheritance or a financial investment. If an elderly person sees himself roaming as a little child in a dream, it means that he will commit an act of ignorance or lose his dignity, ideals or sense of honor. On the other hand, if such an elderly person who sees himself in a dream as a little child is suffering from depression or financial difficulties or health problems, then it means relief from distress and good health and that he will become free from his sins, like the day his mother gave birth to him.

    If one sees that he has a little child who disdains from coming near his father in the dream, it means financial promotion and enjoyment of one’s life. If one sees a little child screaming in his lap in a dream, it means that he plays a string instrument. Children in a dream also could mean either sorrow and pain or happiness and joy.

    If they are one’s own children in the dream, then they mean temptation with money. Children in a dream also could mean contentment with little or loss of one’s means to earn his livelihood or they could mean money or marriage or a flourishing business. Bereavement of a child in a dream means the opposite in real life.

    It also means rejoicing, reunions, pleasures and earning respect. Bereavement of a child in a dream is sometimes interpreted to portray an intention of one’s children or wife to separate from the family. A little male child in a dream represents worries, responsibilities, hard work, catering to ignorant people or dealing with trivial and time wasting people.

    If a prisoner sees himself carrying a little girl in his dream, it means that he will be released from his prison. If one who is going through hard times sees himself holding a little girl in a dream, it means that his adversities will be lifted. If he is poor, it means that he will thrive for success and the little girl then represents his glad tidings.

• caretaker
  • Conscious:
  • Coach:
  • Rural warden:

    (Keeper; Plantations guard; Warden) In a dream, a rural warden represents a rich person. If he looks at walnut trees in the dream, it means that he will control business interests for foreign people. If a warden looks at glass in a dream, it means that he will guard women’s interests.

• decision
  • Inequitable:

    (Man; Person) Seeing a judge or a governor in a dream means involvement in the judicial business. If one is appointed to be a judge in a dream, it means that he will be just and righteous. If one sees himself sitting on the bench, but finds himself unable to handle people’s cases with justice, it means that he is an unjust person.

    If one presides over people in a dream, it means that he may be dismissed from his job. If a traveller becomes a judge in a dream, it means that he will be held up by robbers, or it could mean that God’s blessings upon him will turn into a curse. If one sees a known judge being unjust in a dream, it means that the people of that locality are inequitable and that they cheat in their weights and measures.

    If one sees himself standing before a judge, and if the judge treats him fairly in the dream, it means that he will find justice concerning a personal case involving himself and an adversary, or it could mean relief from depression and stress. If the judge is inequitable in the dream, it means that one will lose to his adversary. If someone sees a judge holding the scale of justice and that the scale tilts to one’s favor in the dream, it represents DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 235 glad tidings of a great reward from God Almighty for one’s deeds.

    However, if the scale of justice tilts to the opposite direction, then it represents a warning from God Almighty for one to repent of his sins, or abandon his involvement in a sinful ventures. If one sees the judge weighing pennies or bad monies in the scale of justice, it means that one will give a false testimony which will be accepted. If one sees himself as a judge, a wise man, a scholar, or a righteous man in a dream, it means that he will attain fame, good reputation, ascetic detachment and spiritual knowledge if he qualifies for that.

    If one is not suitable for such blessings, then it means that he will be falsely accused of a crime, or that he maybe robbed during a trip. If a judge looks cheerful in a dream, it means glad tidings. Seeing the bench of a judge in a dream means a scare or a fight.

    Seeing the seat of rulers, judges, speakers, scholars, or teachers in a dream means disturbance, sorrow, money, business losses, sickness, depression, or the surfacing of hidden secrets. If a sick person sees himself standing before a judge in a dream, it means his death. However, if the case is decided to his favor in the dream, it means that he will recover from his illness.

    If one who is facing adversities sees himself sitting in the judges bench in a dream, it means that he will triumph. An unknown judge in a dream represents God Almighty. A known judge in a dream represents a physician.

  • Justice scale:
  • Controversy:

    (Controversy; Quarrel) If one sees himself quarreling with someone in a dream, it means that he will suffer extreme pressure, stress and sorrow. If one is engaged in a dispute in a dream, it means that he is wrong and must rectify the situation and make peace with the other person. If he does so, it means that he will win what his heart desires.

• aiding
  • Help:

    (Honor) To help or honor poor people in a dream, or to give their needs preference over one’s own means rising in station or rank, though working under higher authorities.

  • Carrying weight:

    (Burdens; Forbearance; Porter; Serving others)

  • Burden:

    (Carrying weight; Forbearance; Porter; Serving others)

• supporting
  • Maintenance:

    (Alimony; Maintenance) To provide support for one’s family and relatives in a dream mean prosperity, protection for one’s children and concern for one’s posterity. Whatever expenses one spends to support his family in a dream will be money he will receive in wakefulness. If one finds himself unwillingly giving family support or alimony to his wife in a dream, it means hypocrisy, or that he is nearing his death.

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  • Alimony:

    (Alimony; Maintenance) To provide support for one’s family and relatives in a dream mean prosperity, protection for one’s children and concern for one’s posterity. Whatever expenses one spends to support his family in a dream will be money he will receive in wakefulness. If one finds himself unwillingly giving family support or alimony to his wife in a dream, it means hypocrisy, or that he is nearing his death.

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  • Support:
• choice
  • Selling:

    If one sees himself as a prisoner being sold in a slave market in a dream, it means honor if the buyer is a woman, and difficulties if the buyer is a man. The higher the price he is auctioned for, the better or worse is his luck. In a dream, the more loss the buyer incurs, the better it is for the traded subject and vice- versa.

    There is also a difference between seeing oneself being auctioned and being sold. Being auctioned in a dream means evil. To sell means to part with.

    In a dream, the buyer is the seller and the seller is a buyer. Selling means giving preference and value to the merchandise. If what is being sold is worldly, the preference is then given to one’s benefits in the hereafter.

    Selling in a dream also means exchanging one condition with another. However, bartering in a dream means to exchange the benefit of things, or to share them. If for example one sees himself in a dream trading something of no value for something precious, and if he is a warrior, it means that he will die as a martyr.

    Selling a free man in a dream means rotation of power and reaching a praiseworthy end. As it happened in the story of Joseph son of Jacob, upon both of them be peace.

  • Yelling:
  • Detergent:

    (Charity)

• guardian
  • Testator:

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  • Custodian:
  • Trustee:
• resolution
  • Conifers:

    (Conifers; Pitch) In a dream, resins mean travels.

  • Signs of the last hour:

    (Day of Reckoning; Day of Resurrection; Last Day; Reckoning; Rising of the dead; Trumpet of Resurrection) Seeing the Day of Resurrection, or Doomsday in a dream is a serious warning for a sinner, or it could represent a warning for someone who is contemplating a sinful act. Seeing the Day of Resurrection in a dream also denotes justice. Beingthe only person resurrected on such a day means one’s death.

    Standing up awaiting one’s judgement on the Day of Resurrection in a dream means travels. If one sees himself and his wife being the only people who are brought for judgement of the grand Day of Gathering in a dream, it means that he is being unjust. If a warrior sees the Day of Resurrection in a dream, it means that by God’s decree, the aggressor shall be defeated.

    The land of the grand gathering in a dream represents a chaste woman or a noble man. The blowing of the Trumpet of Resurrection in a dream represents the salvation of the righteous ones. Seeing any of the great ex¬ traordinary events or signs that shall precede the Day of resurrection in a dream means glad tidings for a believer who does good, and a warning for a disbeliever to correct himself and repent for his sins before its coming.

    Seeing the Day of Resurrection in a dream also denotes that some of the major signs are actually taking place, such as blood shedding, spread of evil, belligerence of atheism, pride about wealth, ruling of the working class, building high rises, the end of the era of kings on earth, or it could remind the person of the prophesied signs, such as the rising of the sun from the West, the emergence of a beast that will speak with a human tongue, the rising of the Imposter (arb. Dajjal. Antichrist), etcetera.

    Seeing the Day of Resurrection in a dream also represents the spread of evil, the presence of an extended police force, and the ruling of large armies and dictatorships around the world. Thus, seeing the Day of Resurrection in a dream is a reminder and a warning to the one who sees it. If one sees the graves splitting open, dead people resurrected back to life and are walking out of them accompanied with their angels in a dream, it means that justice will prevail in that land.

    If one experiences the resurrection in a dream, then discovers that the world went back to continue its prior course , it means that justice will dominate that land for a while, then it will be followed by a tyranny that will be carried by people who are not even suspected to be of such character. Such a dream also could be interpreted to suit a person who is seeking the impossible, or one who is adamant at pursuing the path of wrongdoing, falsehood and lies. Recognizing the eminent final signs of the Day of Reckoning in a dream means that one is unaware of his heedlessness and such dream constitutes a warning.

    If one’s reckoning is easy in a dream, it denotes his wife’s piety, compassion and love for him. If one’s reckoning is detailed and painful in a dream, then it represents major losses. If one’s good deeds weigh heavier than his bad deeds in the dream, it means that his devotion is true and that his reward will be greater.

    If one sees himself carrying the scale to weigh his own deeds in a dream, it denotes his righteousness and correctness. If one sees an angel handing him his records and telling him to read his own book in the dream, it also means that he is on the right path. Walking on the bridge of the Day of Judgment, carrying one’s own records and crying in a dream means that one is praying for God’s forgiveness and to ease his reckoning.

    If one sees the Doomsday in a dream, it means that he will escape from dangerous enemies, or that perhaps a major trial will befall the dwellers of that place. If one crosses the Bridge of Judgement in a dream, it means that he will escape a major trial, or perhaps it could represent a major hurdle one may have to cross in this life. If one sees himself carrying his book of records in his right hand in a dream, it means that he will win righteousness, wealth and honor.

    If one sees himself carrying his book of records in his left hand in a dream, it means that he will fall into sin and the consequent poverty and need of others, for wealth and adultery do not mix. If one witnesses the emergence of the Imposter ( Antichrist ) in a dream, it signifies new trends, innovations and masses straying from the straight path.

  • Compromise:

Practical Insights for Navigating Dreams of Parental Support

• Reflect on Your Current Decisions

  When you have dreams of a parent supporting your decisions, take time to reflect on the choices you are currently making. Consider the aspects of your life where you seek affirmation or guidance. Write down these thoughts and ponder how they relate to your dream.

  Are there decisions where you feel uncertain or anxious? Engaging in self-reflection can help you understand why your mind conjures these parental figures in your dreams. This process can be cathartic and provide clarity, enabling you to approach your choices with greater confidence and peace.

• Engage with Your Family

  Incorporate discussions with your family or trusted friends about the decisions that weigh on your heart. Engaging with loved ones can provide the support that you often seek in dreams. Share your thoughts and feelings openly, as this dialogue can enrich your understanding and lead to invaluable perspectives.

  Family support in waking life can mirror the guidance found in your dreams, reinforcing your confidence in decision-making processes. By being open to receiving support, you not only strengthen family bonds but also invite positive reinforcement into your life.

• Meditate and Connect Spiritually

  Consider incorporating meditation or spiritual practices that resonate with you. Creating a serene space for contemplation can help in understanding the underlying messages of your dreams. Visualize the supportive presence of your parents during these moments and embrace feelings of warmth and comfort.

  This spiritual connection may guide you toward clarity in your thoughts and decisions, tapping into both your inner wisdom and the guidance echoed in your dreams. By deepening your spiritual awareness, you may find yourself more aligned with your soul's desires.

• Journal Your Dream Experiences

  Keep a dedicated journal for your dreams, especially focusing on those where a parent supports your decisions. Record vivid details, emotions felt, and any reflections you might have encountered during subsequent days. This practice enables you to identify patterns or themes in your dreams over time.

  As your dream journey unfolds, patterns may illuminate significant areas of your life needing attention or affirmation. By acknowledging and valuing these dreams, you cultivate a deeper understanding of whatever struggles you may face.

• Seek Professional Guidance

  If certain decisions burden you significantly, consider reaching out to a counselor or a therapist. Professional guidance can provide tailored insights to your unique situation, which might be reflected in your dreams. Just as a parent’s support is comforting, professional support can offer another layer to navigating complex emotions or choices.

  Don't hesitate to pursue this route; seeking help is a sign of strength and clarity. It can also reinforce the positive messaging of your dreams and improve your confidence in decision-making.

FAQs

• What does it mean when I dream about my parent encouraging a specific decision?

  Dreaming about a parent encouraging a decision often reflects a desire for affirmation and support in your waking life. Such dreams may signal that you are facing uncertainties, where the approval of a parent figure can provide comfort. It might be beneficial to consider the nature of the decision and how it aligns with your feelings and values, seeking that encouragement in real life too.

• Why do dreams about parental support feel so comforting?

  Dreams featuring parental support often invoke feelings of love and safety we associate with our caregivers. The emotional warmth and acceptance we crave, especially during times of stress, manifest in dreams as our mind's attempt to heal and soothe. It signifies the importance of these relationships in our lives and the comfort they provide, allowing us to face our challenges with a sense of security.

• Can these dreams indicate my fears about disappointing my parents?

  Yes, dreams of parental support can indeed reveal underlying anxieties about meeting familial expectations. If you're grappling with the idea of decision-making, it may signify concerns about whether these choices align with your parents' values or wishes. Reflecting on such fears can be cathartic, helping you understand your choices and motivations authentically.

• Is there a spiritual meaning behind seeing my parent in dreams?

  From a spiritual perspective, seeing a parent in dreams can be interpreted as a reminder of the guidance and wisdom they've provided. Such dreams symbolize the need for inner strength and confidence in your decisions, often illuminating paths that resonate with your family's moral views. It can also signal a call to reconnect with family bonds and values in your waking life.

• How can I use these dreams to make better decisions?

  Use your dreams as reflections of your emotional state and guidance tools. When a parent supports you in a dream, consider jotting down the feelings and circumstances surrounding these dreams. Then, relate them to your life's current events and decisions to gain insights. This practice can heighten awareness of your internal compass, leading you to make more informed choices aligned with your authentic self.

References

• https://www.islamic-dream-interpretation.com/
• https://www.dreammoods.com/
• https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-moment-youth-therapy