Embark on a Journey Through Your Dreams: The Meaning of Arguing and Unresolved Feelings

Dreaming of arguing or wrestling with unresolved feelings can be a puzzling experience, often leaving you waking up with a heavy heart or a racing mind. These types of dreams are surprisingly common and delve deep into our inner emotional landscapes. They often reflect unresolved conflicts within ourselves or in our relationships.

Just as a river may swell with rain before overflowing, our unaddressed emotions can manifest in dreams as intense arguments that cannot find resolution. This period of dreaming might be your soul's call for reflection, urging you to confront lingering issues or emotions that may be hindering your peace of mind. It’s as if these arguments symbolize a need for understanding, acceptance, and ultimately, resolution in our waking lives.

Whether it’s a quarrel with a loved one or a stranger, each argument in our dreams serves as a mirror, reflecting our innermost thoughts and feelings, guiding us toward a journey of healing and self-discovery.

• Dreams of arguing often reflect unresolved feelings in waking life.
• These dreams encourage self-reflection and communication to heal emotional wounds.
• Understanding the context of the argument is crucial for interpreting the dream's meaning.

Symbols

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  • Mourning the dead:

    (Mourning; Wailing; Yowling) Lamenting and desiring something in a dream connotes evil. Lamentation in a dream also represents a preacher or it could represent a putrid odor that comes from opening the door of a filthy lavatory. Lamentation in a dream also represents dogs’yowling, drum beating, the ringing sound of cymbals, or it could mean a wedding.

    Sitting in a place where people are lamenting and mourning their dead in a dream means that an ominous evil may take place in that locality, or perhaps it could mean separation between families and friends. If one sees himself mourning a deceased person in a dream, it means that harm will come to him from the descendents or family of the departed person. Lamenting with great pain and sorrow and mourning over a deceased person in a dream also means waking up to a great joy and happiness.

    Lamenting in a dream also means adversities which are driven by the person who is lamenting. It also means going astray, or it could denote a flute, as the flute denotes lamenting in a dream. Lamenting in a dream also represents the work of ignorance.

  • Wailing:

    (Mourning; Wailing; Yowling) Lamenting and desiring something in a dream connotes evil. Lamentation in a dream also represents a preacher or it could represent a putrid odor that comes from opening the door of a filthy lavatory. Lamentation in a dream also represents dogs’yowling, drum beating, the ringing sound of cymbals, or it could mean a wedding.

    Sitting in a place where people are lamenting and mourning their dead in a dream means that an ominous evil may take place in that locality, or perhaps it could mean separation between families and friends. If one sees himself mourning a deceased person in a dream, it means that harm will come to him from the descendents or family of the departed person. Lamenting with great pain and sorrow and mourning over a deceased person in a dream also means waking up to a great joy and happiness.

    Lamenting in a dream also means adversities which are driven by the person who is lamenting. It also means going astray, or it could denote a flute, as the flute denotes lamenting in a dream. Lamenting in a dream also represents the work of ignorance.

  • Languor:

    To see oneself in a state of listlessness or stillness in a dream is a sign of deviating from one’s intention and goal. It also means depleting one’s resources, or the conclusion of his life.

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  • Indignation:

    (Fury; Indignation; Rage) Leaving one’s home angry in a dream means entering a prison. If one gets angry for material gains in a dream, it means that he has disdain and contempt toward God’s religion. However, should he get angry in his dream to defend God’s rights, then it means gaining strength and power.

    Becoming angry for someone else’s sake in a dream signifies a corrupt contract, a tainted agreement, a marriage consent with a hidden intent of a divorce to follow, fighting for unlawful earnings, or it could mean accumulating money from usury. In a dream, usury and anger mean falsehood in wakefulness. (See Foam; Frothing at the mouth; Sneezing; Suppressing one’s anger)

  • Fury:

    (Fury; Indignation; Rage) Leaving one’s home angry in a dream means entering a prison. If one gets angry for material gains in a dream, it means that he has disdain and contempt toward God’s religion. However, should he get angry in his dream to defend God’s rights, then it means gaining strength and power.

    Becoming angry for someone else’s sake in a dream signifies a corrupt contract, a tainted agreement, a marriage consent with a hidden intent of a divorce to follow, fighting for unlawful earnings, or it could mean accumulating money from usury. In a dream, usury and anger mean falsehood in wakefulness. (See Foam; Frothing at the mouth; Sneezing; Suppressing one’s anger)

  • Rage:

    (Fury; Indignation; Rage) Leaving one’s home angry in a dream means entering a prison. If one gets angry for material gains in a dream, it means that he has disdain and contempt toward God’s religion. However, should he get angry in his dream to defend God’s rights, then it means gaining strength and power.

    Becoming angry for someone else’s sake in a dream signifies a corrupt contract, a tainted agreement, a marriage consent with a hidden intent of a divorce to follow, fighting for unlawful earnings, or it could mean accumulating money from usury. In a dream, usury and anger mean falsehood in wakefulness. (See Foam; Frothing at the mouth; Sneezing; Suppressing one’s anger)

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• unresolved feelings
  • Incomplete Job:

    (Unfinished business) An incomplete job in a dream signifies joblessness, inactivity, indolence, or it could mean an unattainable desire for leadership. An incomplete job in a dream also means despair. DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 223

  • Breach of a contract:

    (Betrayal; Death; Emptiness)

  • Adjuration:

    (Ingratitude. See Uncertainty)

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  • Controversy:

    (Controversy; Quarrel) If one sees himself quarreling with someone in a dream, it means that he will suffer extreme pressure, stress and sorrow. If one is engaged in a dispute in a dream, it means that he is wrong and must rectify the situation and make peace with the other person. If he does so, it means that he will win what his heart desires.

  • Dispute:

    (Controversy; Quarrel) If one sees himself quarreling with someone in a dream, it means that he will suffer extreme pressure, stress and sorrow. If one is engaged in a dispute in a dream, it means that he is wrong and must rectify the situation and make peace with the other person. If he does so, it means that he will win what his heart desires.

  • Trade:

    Any product that is touched by fire in the process of its manufacturing means arguments and disputes.

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  • Controversy:

    (Controversy; Quarrel) If one sees himself quarreling with someone in a dream, it means that he will suffer extreme pressure, stress and sorrow. If one is engaged in a dispute in a dream, it means that he is wrong and must rectify the situation and make peace with the other person. If he does so, it means that he will win what his heart desires.

  • Quarrel:
  • Dispute:

    (Controversy; Quarrel) If one sees himself quarreling with someone in a dream, it means that he will suffer extreme pressure, stress and sorrow. If one is engaged in a dispute in a dream, it means that he is wrong and must rectify the situation and make peace with the other person. If he does so, it means that he will win what his heart desires.

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  • Controversy:

    (Controversy; Quarrel) If one sees himself quarreling with someone in a dream, it means that he will suffer extreme pressure, stress and sorrow. If one is engaged in a dispute in a dream, it means that he is wrong and must rectify the situation and make peace with the other person. If he does so, it means that he will win what his heart desires.

  • Quarrel:
  • Competition:

Practical Steps to Navigate Your Dream's Emotional Landscape

• Write Down Your Dreams

  As soon as you wake up, take a moment to write down your dreams in a journal. Capturing the vivid details can help you decode the meanings attached to your feelings of arguing and conflict. Over time, these records can unveil patterns, providing further insights into what these arguments symbolize.

• Reflect on Your Emotions

  After documenting your dreams, spend some time reflecting on the emotions you experienced during the dream and consider how they relate to your current life situations. Are there unresolved conflicts bubbling to the surface? Gently explore these feelings within yourself, acknowledging them as part of your healing process.

• Engage in Open Conversations

  If your dream centers around arguments with significant others or close friends, find an appropriate time to engage in open and honest conversations with them. Expressing your thoughts and feelings can often clear the air and pave the way toward understanding and forgiveness.

• Utilize Mindfulness Techniques

  Incorporate mindfulness techniques, such as meditation or deep-breathing exercises, into your daily routine. These can help you center your thoughts and emotions. Mindfulness encourages self-awareness that may alleviate the stresses that lead to such dreams.

• Seek Professional Guidance

  If these dreams persist and significantly affect your emotional well-being, consider seeking professional guidance. Therapists and counselors can assist in uncovering deeper issues and guide you toward resolution, stability, and emotional peace.

FAQs

• What does it mean when I dream about arguing with someone I love?

  Dreaming of arguing with a loved one often reflects hidden tensions or unresolved feelings toward that person. It may indicate that you are grappling with issues in the relationship or expressing fears of losing that bond. These dreams serve as prompts to communicate openly to enhance understanding and healing.

• Why do I keep dreaming about unresolved arguments?

  Recurring dreams of unresolved arguments may signify deep-seated feelings or conflicts that you have yet to address. These dreams are messages from your subconscious urging you to confront these emotional struggles, prompting a need for resolution and inner peace.

• Do arguments in dreams mean I am angry in real life?

  While it may not directly translate to real-life anger, dreams of arguments can reflect underlying frustrations, fears, or emotional distress. They often encourage introspection, leading to a better understanding of what might be troubling you emotionally.

• How can I interpret my dreams better?

  To interpret your dreams effectively, maintain a dream journal, note your feelings, and reflect on the context of your dreams. Engaging in self-reflection and considering the prominent emotions and symbols can enhance your understanding of the messages these dreams carry.

• Should I worry if I have nightmares about arguments?

  While it is natural to feel unsettled by nightmares involving arguments, they are often indicative of unresolved emotions rather than something to fear. Addressing these feelings in waking life can significantly reduce the occurrence of such distressing dreams.

References

• Ibni Sirin's Dream Interpretation
• Journals on Psychological Dream Analysis
• Studies on Emotional Health and Dreams