Understanding the Dream of Finding It Hard to Communicate

Dreams serve as a gateway to our innermost thoughts and feelings, often revealing desires, fears, and conflicts. When we dream of struggling to communicate, it may symbolize deeper emotional issues or social anxieties. Communication is a vital part of our relationships, indicating trust and transparency.

However, difficulties in expressing oneself can lead to feelings of isolation and frustration. Such dreams may arise from our waking life experiences, such as feeling unheard, facing misunderstandings, or grappling with self-expression. By reflecting on the context of these dreams and the emotions we encounter during them, we can gain insights into our psychological state.

Moreover, exploring the symbolism and potential messages embedded in these dreams can illuminate pathways for self-improvement and personal growth. It encourages us to address our fears and become more attuned to our needs, leading us to healthier relationships and a more profound understanding of our emotions.

• Dreams of communication struggles reflect inner tensions and emotional blockages.
• These dreams may indicate fears related to expressing oneself or being misunderstood.
• Understanding the context of the dream is crucial for deeper insight.

Symbols

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  • Escrow:

    (Bail; Collateral; Escrow; Security; Surety) In a dream, a guarantee means commitment or a promise to take responsibility for something. If the content of the guarantee is of good nature, such as charity, or a guarantee of safe conduct, or a promise to satisfy a need, or a promise to save someone in need, 196 113IN DH/H/XVllN O then the dream represents the good character and nature of the person seeing it. If the guarantee is promising alcohol, wine, unlawful money or contempt, then the dream means confinement, need, poverty, parsimony, or tightfistness, because the guarantor in the dream is the debtor and the guarantee in a dream represents a fine.

    If one sees himself guaranteeing someone for something in a dream, it means that he will learn something good from the one he is guaranteeing, or that he will he regret something he already guaranteed. (Also see Sponsor¬ ship)

  • Surety:

    (Bail; Collateral; Escrow; Security; Surety) In a dream, a guarantee means commitment or a promise to take responsibility for something. If the content of the guarantee is of good nature, such as charity, or a guarantee of safe conduct, or a promise to satisfy a need, or a promise to save someone in need, 196 113IN DH/H/XVllN O then the dream represents the good character and nature of the person seeing it. If the guarantee is promising alcohol, wine, unlawful money or contempt, then the dream means confinement, need, poverty, parsimony, or tightfistness, because the guarantor in the dream is the debtor and the guarantee in a dream represents a fine.

    If one sees himself guaranteeing someone for something in a dream, it means that he will learn something good from the one he is guaranteeing, or that he will he regret something he already guaranteed. (Also see Sponsor¬ ship)

  • Rubber stamp:
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  • Olfaction:
  • Examine:

    (Touch) In a dream, examining means spying, eavesdropping or paying attention to a conversation one should not listen to.

  • Innovation:

    (Investigation) If one sees himself being investigated in a court of justice by people he does not know in a dream, it means that he has strayed into innovation, though he remains accountable for his actions.

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  • Hearing:

    (Hearing; Language; Listening; Talking; Words) Speaking different languages in a dream means richness. The words of a deceased person in a dream are always true. The same goes for birds speaking in a dream and their speech denotes glad tidings, prosperity, knowledge and understanding.

    If an animal talks with someone in his dream or tells him: “I saw a dream...” then if the animal refrains from relating such a dream, it means a fight, a battle, losses, or an argument. If a dog, a panther, or a falcon speaks to someone and tells him a dream in a dream, it means glad tidings, great earnings, benefits and joy. In general, birds talking to humans in a dream mean benefits and rising in rank.

    If a snake speaks gently with someone in a dream, it means that he will receive benefits from an enemy. If a beast talks to someone in a dream, it means his death. If one’s head or nose talk to him in a dream, it means that whoever these two members represent in one’s life will suffer from an adversity.

    If a tree speaks to someone in his dream, it means benefiting from that line of thinking. A talking tree in a dream means a fight, or the end of one’s exile. The speech of a tree in a dream also could mean exaltation.

    Whatever a baby says in a dream is true. It also could mean falling into sin. If a godly and a spiritual person sees a baby talking to him in a dream, it means that he will witness wonders or a miracle, or become a witness to an unbelievable agreement.

    The speech of inanimate objects in a dream always means good, provides a lesson or gives advice. Animal talk in a dream also represents punishment and suffering. The talk of one’s limbs in a dream means trouble from one’s relatives, or it could mean committing a sin.

    The speech of moving shadows in a dream means evokingjinn or evil spirits. Being possessed by such spirits and speaking on their behalf in a dream signifies temptation, trouble, corruption and evil. Any words that agree with God’s revelations in a dream must be hearkened to and complied with.

    The opposite is also true. If a limb talks to someone in his dream, it denotes advice one will receive from a relative. Animal talk in a dream denotes leaning toward friendships and finding peace in the company of pious people, or it could mean working to earn one’s livelihood.

    If a wall speaks to someone in a dream, it means a warning of separation, or it could mean renouncing the city and seeking to live in the wilderness, near uninhabited ruins, or near a graveyard. Hearing a voice commanding one to do something in a dream means glad tidings. Hearing God Almighty on the Day of Judgement in a dream means rising in station, performing good deeds and nearness to one’s Lord.

    Listening to the Holy Words of God Almighty in a dream also denotes the spread of justice and righteousness, and such a dream could represent a ruler who cares for his subjects. If a godly and a pious person sees that in a dream, it means that he 404 IBN SEERIN’S will renounce the world and seek the comfort and the blessings of the hereafter. (Also see Exhaustion from, speaking; Listening; Sounds of animals)

  • Human call:
  • Human cry:
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  • Black mud:

    (Black mud; Scum; Slum; Profits; Capital for business; Glad tidings; Dominance) In a dream, a sludge means good news and particularly if one cannot find clean water near it. If a poor person trips into sludge in a dream, it means that his will satisfy his needs. If an unmarried person sees sludge in his dream, it means that he will get married, and he will have a family, a father- in-law and a mother-in-law.

    Though this gain of his will be accompanied with trials and difficulties. Nevertheless, it will also remain under control.

  • Slime:

    (Black mud; Scum; Slum; Profits; Capital for business; Glad tidings; Dominance) In a dream, a sludge means good news and particularly if one cannot find clean water near it. If a poor person trips into sludge in a dream, it means that his will satisfy his needs. If an unmarried person sees sludge in his dream, it means that he will get married, and he will have a family, a father- in-law and a mother-in-law.

    Though this gain of his will be accompanied with trials and difficulties. Nevertheless, it will also remain under control.

  • Slum:

    (Black mud; Scum; Slum; Profits; Capital for business; Glad tidings; Dominance) In a dream, a sludge means good news and particularly if one cannot find clean water near it. If a poor person trips into sludge in a dream, it means that his will satisfy his needs. If an unmarried person sees sludge in his dream, it means that he will get married, and he will have a family, a father- in-law and a mother-in-law.

    Though this gain of his will be accompanied with trials and difficulties. Nevertheless, it will also remain under control.

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  • Investigation:

    (Investigation) If one sees himself being investigated in a court of justice by people he does not know in a dream, it means that he has strayed into innovation, though he remains accountable for his actions.

  • Musical performance:

    (Happiness; Music; Oveijoy) Experiencing delight or overjoy from a musical performance in a dream means being moved by sorrow and grief. To feel overjoyed or raptured in a dream also suggests diligence, a quick mind, intelligence or awareness of someone who is known to be leaden, or it could mean a sudden change in the attitude of a stingy person as he turns to spending his money with generosity. The feeling of rapture or emotional ecstasy in a dream also means indulging in sin, becoming alcoholic, committing adultery, or it could mean love for God Almighty, turning toward Him in truth and with sincerity.

  • Rapture:

    (Happiness; Music; Oveijoy) Experiencing delight or overjoy from a musical performance in a dream means being moved by sorrow and grief. To feel overjoyed or raptured in a dream also suggests diligence, a quick mind, intelligence or awareness of someone who is known to be leaden, or it could mean a sudden change in the attitude of a stingy person as he turns to spending his money with generosity. The feeling of rapture or emotional ecstasy in a dream also means indulging in sin, becoming alcoholic, committing adultery, or it could mean love for God Almighty, turning toward Him in truth and with sincerity.

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  • Steps:

    (Conveyor; Stairway)

  • Monastery:

    (Monastery) In a dream, seeing a convent is like seeing a church. Perhaps it means dispelling anxiety or distress and recovering from adversities. If a sick person sees a convent in his dream, it means his approaching death.

  • Mail carrier:

    (Driver; Mail carrier; Messenger; Renter) In a dream, a carrier means that one will recover from an illness, or fall into one, pay for his sins, carry burdens, endure sufferings, or bring comfort to others. A carrier in a dream also represents a forerunner, a guardian, a mail carrier, or a police officer.

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  • Anchorman:

    (Anchorman; Announcer; Newscaster) A broadcaster in a dream represents someone who brings news or conveys both true, as well as false stories. He also represents someone who is punctual or someone who keeps his promises. A broadcaster in a dream also could represent a story teller, an advisor, a preacher, a reader, or an expert in investigating the news.

  • Newscaster:

    (Anchorman; Announcer; Newscaster) A broadcaster in a dream represents someone who brings news or conveys both true, as well as false stories. He also represents someone who is punctual or someone who keeps his promises. A broadcaster in a dream also could represent a story teller, an advisor, a preacher, a reader, or an expert in investigating the news.

  • Changing form:

    (Changing form) Transformation by substitution in a dream where one thing is converted into something else. If a withered tree is trans¬ formed into a blossoming one in a dream, it means political changes, changes in worldly conditions, or reversal of conditions from good to bad, or from bad to good. This element includes the transformation of inner substances or physical ones.

    For example, if sees himself as an old person in a dream, when in real life he is young, it means progress in his spiritual life and gaining honor. If he is an old person and sees himself as a young boy in a dream, it means indulging in wrongdoing. If one sees a known old person regaining his youth, it means that the material conditions of the person seeing the dream will turn around to one’s advantage or otherwise, i.e., richness into poverty and vice-versa, or if he is sick, he will recover from his illness.

    If one is transformed into a beautiful shoot of green or a blossoming branch of a tree in a dream, it means that he may die within a short time. Becoming taller in a dream means longevity, prosperity, or begetting a son. If one finds himself missing partial mental keenness or physical abilities or a limb in a dream, it means that he may suffer losses relating to his worldly interests.

    If a man sees himself transformed into a woman, and wears her apparels, ornaments and make-up in a dream, it means that he may suffer humiliation, adversities and abuse. If a woman sees herself transformed into a man, or if she grows a beard in a dream, it means that she will reestablish her connection with a missing child. As a man in the dream, and if she is pregnant, it means that she will beget a son who may die in his early youth, but if she is not pregnant, it means that she is no longer fertile.

    If one sees himself flying with wings in a dream, it means travels. If one sees himself transformed into a wooden staff in a dream, it represents his insolence. If one sees himself transformed into an iron rod in a dream, it means longevity.

    If one sees himself transformed into a bridge in a dream, it means that he may become a ruler, a wise man, or a man of knowledge whom people will seek to benefit from his wisdom. If a person sees his sick child turn into a bird in a dream, it means the death of the child. If one sees himself turned into a beast in a dream, it means that he will be segregated from the believers to live alone because of his evil DICTIONARY OF DREAMS 445 qualities.

    If one sees himself turned into a deer, a gazelle or an antelope in a dream, it means that he will become obsessed with his sexual life, or that he will become mentally deranged to the degree of indulging in bisexual practices. If he turns into a pig in a dream, it means prosperity surrounded with absence of human dignity. If one sees a steer transformed into a wolf in a dream, it represents a government employee who will turn unjust.

    However, according to Islamic interpretations of the human transformation into a lower category of creatures phenomena, if such transformation takes place in real life, it connotes a curse and a punishment, and it does not last for more than three days, and it will culminate in death.

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  • Harshness:

    (Austerity; Grimness; Hardness; Rigor; Severity) To be unpleasant, sharp, lacking restraint and wittingly incisive in a dream, or to display a harsh character, or to have one’s heart blocked to receiving admonition, or to be defiant when God’s words are spoken in a dream means pride, arrogance and indulgence in sinful actions.

  • Austerity:

    (Austerity; Grimness; Hardness; Rigor; Severity) To be unpleasant, sharp, lacking restraint and wittingly incisive in a dream, or to display a harsh character, or to have one’s heart blocked to receiving admonition, or to be defiant when God’s words are spoken in a dream means pride, arrogance and indulgence in sinful actions.

  • Grimness:

    (Austerity; Grimness; Hardness; Rigor; Severity) To be unpleasant, sharp, lacking restraint and wittingly incisive in a dream, or to display a harsh character, or to have one’s heart blocked to receiving admonition, or to be defiant when God’s words are spoken in a dream means pride, arrogance and indulgence in sinful actions.

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  • Finding a lost object:
  • Lost object:
  • Discovering a treasure:

    (Hidden treasure; Knowledge; Wheel) Discovering a treasure in a dream means acquiring knowledge. If one is a merchant, then it means profits from his business, or spending money generously on God’s path. If one is a ruler, it means expansion of his powers and it denotes his justice.

    Seeing a treasure in a dream is interpreted in relation to one’s type of trade. A treasure in a dream also represents a business. Discovering a hidden trunk with little money inside it in a dream means a short lived difficulty, but if the trunk is stashed with money, then it means distress, sadness and sorrow.

    In many instances, discov¬ ering a treasure in a dream may mean death, or it could mean becoming rich, or complying with a court order. Discovering a great treasure in a dream means martyrdom. Discovering a treasure and rejoicing in the dream means loss of one’s money or business.

    Discovering a treasure in a dream also could mean ease in one’s life, receiving an inheritance, distress, trouble, wearing a new garment, a wife, cheating on one’s taxes, or it could mean avoiding to pay alms tax, or hindering the distributions of charitable endowments. A treasure in a dream also represents a profitable business, or it could represent a money changer, a jeweler, or remembering something. Discovering a treasure that is difficult to reach in a dream represents a stingy person who hinders the distribution of charities, or if he is a scholar, it means that he does not like to share his knowledge with others, and if one is a judge, it means that he is unjust.

    If a woman discovers a treasure in her dream, it means that she is careful about spending money and managing her household. If the trunk has no cover or lid in the dream, then it means the opposite.

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Practical Steps to Enhance Communication Skills

• Practice Active Listening

  Active listening encourages deeper understanding and connection with others. Engage with a partner in meaningful conversations by focusing entirely on what they say without planning your response in advance. Summarizing their points will show them that you value their input and reinforce your own communication skills.

  This two-way interaction can help alleviate any anxiety about expressing yourself and builds trust within your relationships.

• Journaling Your Thoughts

  Consider keeping a journal to reflect on your thoughts and feelings. In your journal, write whatever comes to mind freely, avoiding self-censorship. This practice can assist you in identifying barriers to communication, allowing you to express your emotions more openly.

  Journaling helps articulate your concerns and aspirations, which can translate into more effective communication in your daily life.

• Engage in Assertiveness Training

  Learning assertiveness can significantly improve your communication abilities. Join workshops or find resources online that guide you in expressing your thoughts and needs confidently and respectfully. Assertiveness training can empower you to speak up about your feelings, reducing anxiety and fear about being misunderstood.

  With time and practice, this will enhance your interpersonal communication skills.

• Seek Feedback from Trusted Friends

  Ask friends or family members for feedback on your communication style. Engaging in open conversations about your challenges can provide valuable insight into how you can improve. Their constructive criticism can help reveal patterns you might overlook and encourage growth in your communication efforts.

  Creating a safe space for feedback fosters deeper relationships and spiritual growth.

• Pursue Mindfulness Techniques

  Incorporate mindfulness practices such as meditation and breathing exercises into your daily routine. Mindfulness can help calm your mind and enhance your awareness of your thoughts and feelings, which is crucial for effective communication. By being present in the moment, you may find it easier to articulate your thoughts and connect with others while reducing anxiety associated with communication.

FAQs

• What does it mean to dream about not being able to speak?

  Dreaming about the inability to speak often reflects feelings of powerlessness or fear of being unheard in waking life. It may indicate that you're experiencing difficulties in expressing your true thoughts or that a situation makes you feel vulnerable.

• Why do I dream of being misunderstood?

  Dreams of being misunderstood can symbolize underlying worries about your relationships or fear of conflict. These dreams may represent the anxiety you experience when communicating your feelings or concerns to others, suggesting a need to address these issues in reality.

• How can I interpret the emotions in my dreams of communication struggles?

  The emotions in your dreams offer insight into your inner state. Pay attention to feelings like frustration, fear, or anxiety. Ask yourself what aspects of your waking life may mirror these emotions and how you can begin to communicate those feelings to those around you.

• Are dreams about communication problems connected to real-life experiences?

  Absolutely! These dreams often reflect your real-life experiences or anxieties regarding communication. They serve as a prompt to examine areas of your life where you might feel disconnected or judged, encouraging you to work on those relationships actively.

• What should I do if I frequently have dreams about not being able to communicate?

  Consider reflecting on the recurring themes and emotions in these dreams. Seeking guidance from a trusted friend or professional who can help you explore underlying issues may be beneficial. Engaging in communication skill-building can also enhance your confidence. Addressing these dreams thoughtfully can lead to positive change in your waking life.

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